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Frenzied Feeding

Saturday, January 10th, 2009

Gabriella’s second birthday featured some of the most intense cake eating I have seen in very long time.

Caked On

FEED ME!

Goodness by the Forkful

Gabriella Is Two

Tuesday, January 6th, 2009

Gabriella is two.  Her birthday came at the close of the year and these are just a handful of shots just before her birthday that I managed to process last night.  Thinking about her growing up leaves with with such an odd feeling, one where excitement and apprehension mingle in lazy pools of time.  Most of my life feels like a static backdrop, the same paths are run down nearly ever day at the same time and pace that I often forget that cycle of day and night marks time passing and it is until I sit down and look, really look, at my daughter do I feel how much as moved by.

Gabi is become very much her own person.  She is a persistent communicator, hunting for the right words and when that fails appropriating or developing her own as she sees fit.  This past month she discovered Christmas and in particular those wonderfully quaint Rankin/Bass stop motion movies which we have now watched enough so that the songs are firmly gripping our ears and refusing to let go.  By far Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer is her favorite character and she has gone as far as renaming him to suit her own purposes.  Kadoo is the name she gave him and largely the only one she’ll respond to if asked whether she would like to watch his movie or read his book.

She plays endlessly in the toy kitchen that we toiled for three hours Christmas Eve.  She makes soup for sipping, and pizza for snacking and it is not unusual to find a stuffed animal cooling in the freezer, defrosting in the microwave, or slowly roasting in the oven.  Her world is malleable and imaginative and I would not change that for anything.

Chin Up

Monkey Business

Year Two: Week Fifty-One

My First Real “Dad” Christmas

Tuesday, December 16th, 2008

Last year I built nothing, this year I undertake the assembly of the above kitchen.  Wish me luck, I’ll need it along with patience and many pots of coffee.

The Tease

Tuesday, December 2nd, 2008

Post-Television First Steps

Monday, November 17th, 2008

We made our decision. This month we are shutting off the satellite service and sending back the equipment.  It will be a strange feeling not having this massive pipe of media content flowing into the house, I grew up with cable television and Management and I have always subscribe to the massive channel packages from the moment we moved in together.  Shutting it all off marks a huge shift for us in how we view entertainment and how we choose to be entertained.

Years ago I took a media studies course as part of my undergraduate degree, it blended rhetorical analysis, social psychology, and communication theory with the goal of examining how people use media and in turn how media uses people.  Media consumption is a two way street, viewers consume and in turn are consumed.  The first lesson of class was looking at the business model of television and I, like many in the class, viewed ourselves as the customer or the target for the networks.  That perception of the relationship could not have been further from the truth.

What I can away with from that class was that I am never the customer, I am always the product, advertisers are the customer and the content created is essentially bait for media companies to fish for viewers.  For years that understanding left me unsettled in the back of my mind and with Gabriella arriving it has surged forward to sit on top of my thoughts.  I don’t like the thought of being a “target” and when I think of my daughter being a “high value target” I am very uncomfortable.

Granted economics, like most everything in this world, is the primary initiator.  The savings we will realize is substantial, nearly $1500/year USD, but there are also the intangibles.  We will control our consumption patterns and hopefully avoid the narcotic trap of “television as ambiance” and in the process raise our daughter to be critical of the messages that swirl about the media-sphere.  My hope is that this decision will make it easier for her to ask those very important questions of “What is being said?”, “Why is it being said?”, “Who is saying it?”, and “How is it being said?”.  My dream for her is that she always questions everything even if sometimes it is only to herself.

We’ll see how the project goes and I’ll be writing about it here, from the challenges of wiring up the living room for a media center to the withdrawl from having television as a one-dimensional companion.  If we are lucky we will learn more about ourselves, each other, and the culture in which we swim.

Cutting Deep into the Lifestyle

Friday, November 14th, 2008

Bye-bye television.

Well, more like, bye-bye Dish Network.  Management and I sat down and talked about everything from the economy playing out like the Titantic to how much TV we actually watch and came to the conclusion that we are not getting $120 a month worth of anything from it.  Our solution? We are ditching it.  Completely.  Moving on to cable? Nope.

Here’s our crazy idea. GreenCine for our main DVD rentals, Netflix account for streaming, and an Xbox 360 for watching the streams and playing games.  All together it is a little less than $30 a month so we are looking at a net savings of $90 a month and if we cancel the gym and spa memberships we will be saving around $260 per month.  Sure we have the up front cost of the Xbox but that really is only 20% of the annual cost of Dish.
We are thinking that the end of this month is when we’ll leap feet first into the “post television” era, just in time for the Holidays.

The thought is that we should be making cutbacks to our lifestyle before we are forced to and to truly make an effort to live as far below our means as we can.  We have, over the past year, been consciously cutting back on dining out and delaying or not making purchases that aren’t of an immediate need.  The hope is that we can put our lifestyle on a diet so that when lean times hit they won’t feel so lean.

If anything we’ll be saving some money and maybe have more time to read a book and who knows maybe it will all work out and television as a monolithic service will be nothing but an expensive memory.